1.
Universal
Loving-Kindness
We learned in
previous weeks that loving-kindness involves empathy for others. We have the
ability to take in others pain and suffering and breathe out to them health,
happiness, and wellness. The concept of universal loving-kindness is similar,
yet we take these feelings, our open-heartedness, sensitivity, generosity, and
emotional intimacy and spread them into all of our relationships. Universal
loving-kindness allows us to see one another, acknowledge and hear another, be
present with another, and feel one with one another in regards to lovers,
partners, friends, strangers, and enemies. To reach integral health, we must
extend these capacities to all of humankind. The following universal
loving-kindness exercise expands our hearts and minds, serves as an antidote
for hatred and anger, and helps to shift our focus to a universal
loving-kindness rather than personal love (Dacher, 2006).
Exercise
Closing your eyes
for a few minutes, rest into the natural ease of the body and mind and repeat the
following phrases over and over for 10 minutes: “May all individuals gain freedom from suffering. May all individuals
find sustained health, happiness, and wholeness. May I assist all individual in
gaining freedom from suffering. May I assist all individuals in finding health,
happiness, and wholeness” (Dacher, p.93).
2.
Integral
Assessment
With integral
assessment, you place the focus on the four quadrant (psychospiritual,
interpersonal, biological, and worldly) to identify the areas that you wish to
work on. You identify any urgent areas of distress and create a plan for
developing them (Dacher, 2006).
First Aspect of Integral Assessment
Resting into the
ease and stillness of the body and mind, release mental activity until quiet.
Then ask yourself which aspect of life is the source of difficulty and
suffering. Focus on this area. What is the line of development that is most
essential for you? What is your current level and what will you aim for?
(Dacher, p.115).
Second Aspect of Integral Assessment
Returning to the
stillness, shift the focus from healing to promoting integral development. What
area is ready for growth and development? Is it the same that needs healing?
What does the next area look like? (Dacher, p115).
3.
Reflection
What I discovered
about myself is that I have a strong and eager base. I was torn between
focusing on interpersonal and biological. The area that I chose to be a focus
of growth and development is biological. I felt that I have a strong sense of
universal loving-kindness as I try to instill feelings of love in all areas of
my life. It makes life more meaningful to me. I can further develop these
feelings through practicing the universal loving-kindness exercise. Biologically,
I feel that most people could benefit from developing this area. I would like
to increase my knowledge and awareness regarding nutrition, and progress my
fitness into a deliberate program that encompasses endurance, agility,
flexibility, and strength. To foster greater biological wellness, I can
implement a nutrition and fitness plan. I can use meditation to develop my
subtle mind into a unity consciousness. Yoga a few days a week will be
beneficial to enhance all areas as well. I can create a program that is
tailored to my nutritional and physical needs and abilities. The levels of
self-regulation progress from homeostasis to subtle mind/body practices to highly refined
spiritual/mind/body abilities. Once we are progressively experiences, our
awareness, now being enhanced, can serve as an informal and ongoing assessment that
can be used throughout our life (Dacher, 2006).
References:
Dacher, E.S. (2006). Integral health: The path to human
flourishing. Laguna Beach, CA: Basic Health Publications, Inc.